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Rules of platonic friendship

There is the “bro-code” to keep the bro-fellowship in check, and in a platonic relationship? Yeah, there is a “bestie-code” just so friendship lines don’t get blurry so you or your favorite BFF don’t get hurt.

So there, what are those guiding rules you should never ever break in a just-friends relationship? Here, check them out.

Do not flirt

Nah, won’t do. You don’t hit on your bestie of the opposite sex ever! You don’t practice flirting with them either; no matter how innocent your intentions are, things might turn awkward right on the spot. Value your friendship much? Then don’t send any ‘signals’.

Clear-cut boundaries

Sure, besties do everything together; go camping, swimming, hangout and sleepovers and more. Right, all good but there are certain exceptions when that bestie-friend of yours happens to be of the opposite sex. Here’s when you both have to know your boundaries; like not making a habit of sleeping over at each other’s place.

No date-like hangouts

One of the dictates of the ‘bro-code’ is that bros do not get affectionate with each other; the only show of affection is a punch in the back I guess. Take a cue from these BFFs, and dissuade from doing stuff you wouldn’t do for your same-sex besties to your opposite sex bestie; like going on long drives, exchanging gifts, candle-lit dinners, etc. Keep it simple and light. 

Other platonic relationship rules to abide by are: 

No sexual contact.

No silly games to get him cozy up to you.

You don’t do couple stuff together, like gifting flowers on Val's day!

Treat him the same way you do with your girlfriends; like not dressing up and all for him.

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